Smear it, drip it on and lick it off – food is such a versatile sex prop, the possibilities are endless.īut don’t just think whipped cream, honey and paint-on chocolate sauce be inventive: go for avocados, mangoes, berries and bananas, hummus and strawberry jam. There are dozens of sexy board games available from any good sex retailer website.Ĭhoose from sexy dice games, spin the sex act wheels, Truth or Dare style formats, sexy Scrabble or hot sex position cards that list activities you must perform on your partner. When they arrive home, try out each and every toy on them: they have to rate them in order of pleasure. Grab all the sex toys you own (order some new ones if there’s a lone vibrator sitting forlornly on the table), then place them on a table in the bedroom, lined up in a formal fashion.Ĭall your partner while they’re at the shops and say they’re needed as a ‘test dummy’ for a project you’re working on. If you really want to make things interesting, tie both of your hands behind your backs. They’ve got no option but to up the oral quotient by using their lips, teeth and tongue – or inventively explore interesting options using parts of themselves they wouldn’t usually dream of incorporating into love play. Tie your partner’s hands together then ask them to seduce you. This is a cunning way to teach a not-so-great lover new tricks (if you like this one, get the patient to make an appointment, so the therapist can give ‘hands-on’ demonstrations of each technique). The therapist goes into lots of detail describing what would be a good way to do this - all, of course, your personal idea of heaven!
The patient (him) rings and pretends to ask for advice on how to please their partner.
One of you (you) goes somewhere private to take a call from a ‘patient’ you’re trying to help. If they don’t like where the fantasy is going, when it’s their turn, they’re turn it in a completely different direction. It’s a sneaky, not-too-embarrassing way to find out your partner’s secret turn-ons because we rarely make up a fantasy which doesn’t appeal to us. When the person lands on a number, they have to complete the corresponding fantasy out loud. Even worse, she was really attractive’ ‘And there I was – in the middle of an orgy’), then take turns throwing the dice. Write down and number the beginning of six fantasies (‘Suddenly I felt my girlfriend’s friend put her hand on my knee under the table. Try taking the phone into a separate room and act as a 'sex therapist' giving him guidance on exactly how to pleasure his partner This is especially perfect for couples who are so close that sex feels like having sex with a sibling: role-play pushes you out of cosy intimacy into a more fun, lusty place. Sure, they’re cheesy and scratchy as hell to wear but anything that transforms you both into other characters is a good thing.
PVC nurse outfits, all-in-one cat suits, Sexy Superman gear, French Maid get ups – role-play outfits like these are cheap as chips these days if you look online. One rule: you can’t shine it on the same body part more than once. Turn the lights off, then take it in turns to light one area of your own body with a torch.Įach lit body part must be touched, stroked and/or licked for two minutes, then the torch gets passed onto the next person. Play it back in the car when you’re on the way to somewhere you can’t possibly fool around or share some headphones and listen to it on the tube. (If you’re the quiet types, up the moans and groans and talking dirty for the occasion.) Speaking of recordings…it’s definitely worth recording yourselves having sex. If writing’s so not your thing, record it instead and send to their smart phone – preferably at a completely inopportune moment. Make up an erotic story based on you and your partner – go into as much detail as possible - then type it or write it down and slip it somewhere unexpected so they’ll find it later that day.
This works a treat, despite its simplicity, because the entire time you’re apart, you both stay focused on the fact you have a saucy secret. Tracey says that listening to a recording of yourself having sex is a great turn on